Yesterday (Saturday) was a good day. It began with some computer work and watching more of the Shonen Knife VHS tape that I just got. Then I met Sara at the soccer field for her last day of soccer for this season. She had two games today. The first game was at noon and they won. Sara played offense in the first quarter and defense in the third. I took pictures and video. It was cold, there was no sun, it was cloudy and it felt like it was in the 40’s. I had to wear a heavy jacket and my hands were cold. After the game we went to get lunch. On the way to lunch we passed a major flock of birds who were migrating south. They were in a corn field and I guess they were eating the scraps of dried out corn cobs on the ground. This was on the back road of Robbinsville (Gordon Rd?) heading toward Rt. 130. I pulled over the car and I was taking picutres of the birds. I have not seen them yet, I think they are cool pictures. I waited until the birds settled and then ran down the road so they would fly in a pack and then took pictures. I was joking with Sara when we drove through them ‘You pooped on me, now I will get revenge!’ and then I would speed up toward the birds. She was laughing at that.
As we were driving to lunch Sara was talking about E.T (the movie) and I told her that my initials were E.T.J. She knew my middle name was Tommy and we told her that Tommy was Thomas. She said ‘I know’. Just then I got a phone call and it was Tommy Valatka. That was funny. To get a call from Tom right in the middle of our ‘Tommy’ conversation. Anyway, Tom was going to see Dylan at the spectrum and wanted to see if I wanted to go. I did, of course and I considered it earlier but I just don’t have the time or money to spend. The timing is just off. I really wish I could see Bob and I have my reasons for not going. I will not regret missing him (I don’t deal with regret). But at the same time I really wish the energy and timing was right to see Bob. I am passing up many shows that I want to see. It is just a re-charge phase that I am in. Plus I want to pay off my camera that I just bought on my credit card. And with Christmas coming, etc, I want the money for Sara and the holiday. I recently passed on Pollard at the World Cafe Live, Cheap Trick at the TLA, Dylan, and tonight Brian Wilson is at the Keswick. That one is really tempting. The Keswick is not hard to get to. I am wondering if it’s sold out.
Tom and I talked about family, music, etc. It was nice to hear from him. Tom will always be a soul brother of mine. We went through amazing times together. We went on our own paths and did not always have parallel lifestyles but that’s all in the past and I am glad to have a friendship with him now. I hope we can get together with our daughters (his daughter Angela is two months younger than Sara). Wow, time is moving on, no doubt.
We returned to Sara’s second soccer game and it was even colder. They lost this game. Sara played the same offense then defense (1st and 3rd). She is so much fun to watch. She is so full of life. She bounces up and down and plays on the sidelines. She is awesome. She plays with her friends on the sidelines. I videotaped her on the sidelines playing around. She dances around on the field like none of the other kids. She has her own style. It is great to see her originality. She is an only child and with me as a parent (who is also an only child, I developed my own style) I can really see how she has her own thing going. After the game they all gathered around and handed out trophys and the coach congratulated everyone. It was nice. When Sara got her trophy she made a speech, ‘This is my first sports tropy, but actually I got another medal from cheerleading’ or something similar. She was laughing and very talkative. Not shy at all and very cute and happy and friendly with the other girls and the coach. Outgoing, cute, friendly, talkative. That’s my girl.
After the game we went to see ‘Happy Feet’. It was great and Sara had a great time. I could see her laughing a lot during the movie and repeating certain lines. We had a blast. After the movie we were dancing (mostly me) in the front of the theatre to the closing credits. That movie makes you want to dance. It was cool. The theatre was crowded so of course there were a few people who were loud and talked throughout. I had to glare at the dude behind me to shut up. He didn’t so I blocked him out, luckily it worked and I still enjoyed the movie immensly. People amaze me. He was the only guy talking through the entire movie. He spoke some Indian language and he just was non-stop without even trying to whisper at all. Did he realize that if everyone did that it would ruin the movie for the entire theatre? No, he felt that he was the priviledged one, the one who could talk. After the flick I stared him down, he got the message. If we weren’t with our families there would have been an issue to settle. I rose above him, and he did not get to me. The flick was great and we goofed around in the parking lot for a while then we left. Later when I called Sara she was watching ‘E.T.’. My happy little duck.
In the car, Sara was asking for Annie. She likes the ‘Annie In Wonderland’ album very much. She liked ‘If I Loved You’ and when I played ‘Going Home’ I asked her if she liked it. From the backseat I heard ‘Yes’ very matter-of-factly. When we get in the car she says ‘Music!’ and I was talking to her and she cut me off ‘yeah, ok, music!’. hehe.
I gave Sara ‘Annie In Wonderland’. She is happy, she digs it. She can sing along to ‘If I Were Made Of Music’ very well.
Today I will drive to Freehold to visit a friend. I grabbed some CD’s for the drive. Today’s listening will be:
Thin Lizzy – The Peel Sessions
Public Enemy – Fear Of A Black Planet
Buzz Zeemer – Delusions Of Grandeur
Bill Hicks – Relentless and Flying Saucer Tour
Rickie Lee Jones – Pirates
Loudon Wainwright – Social Studies
Yukari Fresh – Twelve Plus Twelve
Tom Waits – Foreign Affairs
Lewis Black – Rules Of Enragement